PA Key: Work Collaboratively to Address Children’s Behavioral Challenges

Addressing children’s behavioral challenges can be one of the most difficult parts of being an educator. When behavioral challenges arise, it’s important to approach the situation collaboratively by working with caregivers.

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Building a strong partnership with caregivers is important to addressing and resolving behavioral challenges in children, a new Pennsylvania Key article says.

In a new article, the Pennsylvania Key makes some suggestions on how to navigate discussions with caregivers with empathy and clarity to ensure positive outcomes for students.

Tips for educators include:

• Approach with empathy and understanding - Understand that caregivers may be anxious, defensive, or frustrated about their child’s behavior. Acknowledge their feelings and validate their concerns. Start the conversation by expressing genuine concern for the child’s well-being.

• Provide specific examples - When discussing behavioral challenges, be specific about the behaviors you’ve observed and provide concrete examples and evidence, rather than generalizing.

• Focus on the impact - Explain how the behavior is affecting the child’s learning environment and social interactions. By illustrating this, caregivers can see the broader implications of the behavior and the need for a collaborative solution.

• Collaborate on solutions - Involve caregivers in developing a plan to address the behavior. This fosters a sense of shared responsibility and ensures that solutions are realistic and effective.

• Set clear goals and expectations - Establish clear, achievable goals and expectations. Ensure that both you and the caregivers agree on the goals and understand the steps needed to achieve them.

• Communicate regularly - Maintain ongoing communication with caregivers to monitor progress and make necessary adjustments. Regular updates on the child’s behavior and feedback and what is working or needs improvement help to keep everyone informed and engaged.

• Offer support and resources - Provide caregivers with resources - such as access to educational materials or referrals to counseling or behavioral specialists - and support to help them address behavioral challenges at home. 

• Celebrate successes - Acknowledge and celebrate any improvements or successes, no matter how small. Positive reinforcement encourages continued progress and reinforces the value of collaboration.

• Be patient and persistent - Addressing behavioral challenges takes time and persistence. Be patient with the process and recognize that progress may be gradual.

To learn more, read the Pennsylvania Key’s article.